Help for out of control watch addiction?

Submitted by NOVA on February 22, 2011 - 6:57pm

I've been buying so many watches lately, I'm starting to think I need counseling.  Is there a group for watch addicts?  Watch Addicts Anonymous?

Seriously, please share any strategies that you use to control/limit buying.   Auction sites seem to have an endless supply of rare models, or ones that I don't have, or have never seen, so any such criteria alone is insufficient.  Do you set limits for yourself, either by dollar or number of watches, maybe within a set time period?

And please don't tell me to exercise self discipline.  I've never mastered that, and I'm not likely to start now, on the eve of becoming a senior citizen.  I need a rational methodology to use when faced with the thrill of the chase.

Ahh, just sniped another one. . . . ;>}

plainsmen
Posted February 22, 2011 - 6:59pm

Oh my... you've come to the wrong place.  I'll sit and drink coffee with in a cloud of blue smoke wherever this meeting is as I need to attend horribly...

 

NOVA
Posted February 22, 2011 - 7:13pm

Hmmm. . . maybe I should start one then.  The first lesson will be, do as I say, not as I do.

Wayne Hanley
Posted February 22, 2011 - 7:25pm

Plains

Look ashamed, you are hopeless! But don't feel lonley!

Wanna Buy a Watch?

Wayne

 

Bob Bruno
Posted February 22, 2011 - 7:31pm

Nova, here's what I did. I bought a watch I couldn't afford. That was about two months ago, I haven't bought a watch since. I have tried all the methods you mentioned above. The can't afford but bought anyway worked the best for me ........ so far anyway :-)    Oh and I have never been able to sell one of my watches   ( he said sheepishly)  I need help!!!!!

Bob

NOVA
Posted February 22, 2011 - 7:41pm

How do you know when you can't afford something?  I mean, is that before you declare bankruptcy, or after you've been through bankruptcy and had all your previous debts discharged?  I've been reading about all those financial institutions and car manufacturers, and I still can't figure out what's affordable.

OldTicker
Posted February 22, 2011 - 7:44pm

Just think of it as a investment, plus you all are preserving a piece of history, hopefully when we all pass on and our kids inherit all of our prized watches, they will also pass them on to the next generation....at least that is what I tell myself.

Otherwise there will be a lot of rolling over in our graves going on... :>(

Bob Bruno
Posted February 22, 2011 - 8:09pm

In reply to by OldTicker

OT, I like that part about preserving history. Thats how I feel about my watches too! My daughter doesn't share my passion for my watches, so I suspect they will be on ebay before the dirt even settles on my grave.

NOVA
Posted February 22, 2011 - 7:49pm

LOL. . . just what I needed, OldTicker, another rationalization.  I tell my husband that I'm saving the economy.  What rationalization could top that?

I don't have kids, and my nieces and nephews think my watch collecting is crazy.  Maybe we should set up a foundation to which I could bequeath my watches.

mybulova_admin
Posted February 23, 2011 - 1:24am

In reply to by NOVA

The 'myBulova Foundation' is now open for business!!!

All watch donations accepted....Bulova of course.

I can see the museum blueprints in my head now.......

OldTicker
Posted February 22, 2011 - 8:20pm

Well, I started buying Gold coins and Gold pocket & wristwatches back in the early 80's jwhen it was around $300-350.00 an oz, and people thought I was crazy then, not so much now, and when I remind them of it, I get no comments, but they sure drool when they look at what I have aquired over the years.

I'm knocking on the door of the 1/2 century mark and my better half is in her early 30's, She has no interest in my hobby, but I am hoping with time she will come around and appreciate the things from the "Good Ole Days" (fingers crossed)

 

Timemachines
Posted February 22, 2011 - 8:31pm

I'm sorry to say, it dont get easier! , I have been doing this for over 25 years now, and now I eat, sleep and breath watches!  LOL, once your adicted, it's all over.  LOL

 You will find out the first time you buy a $500.00 watch at a yard sale for $2.00  and it does happen.

bourg01
Posted February 22, 2011 - 11:02pm

Patience, Patience, and more patience. And then research, research and more research. If that doesn't help you slow down.

Then tell the wife how much you've spent, she'll slow you down, or maybe you'll end up like me......divorced! lol

Seriously though, we're all in the same boat , once bitten, your done for. I just keep trying to tell myself another will come along if I see the price is past my comfort level.

plainsmen
Posted February 22, 2011 - 11:08pm

In reply to by bourg01

Yeah... this is what I need to do... slow the frick down.  I've only been doing this since October and I've got what... 15 keepers and been through at least as many others.

bourg01
Posted February 22, 2011 - 11:08pm

Well I'm still doing watches so obviously the wife is gone.

el-ooose
Posted February 23, 2011 - 7:51am

Look it's really easy to cure yourself, time comsuming but easy! Just start refurbishing them. After the first 500 you strip, polish, redial, find hands and crystals for, put on new bands then sell at a loss, I promise you will never want to see another watch, let alone own one.

By the time it reaches several thousand you'll be loosing the will to live and promising yourself that you will get a life, soon.

I don't own one or even wear one any longer.

They are all for sale.

Still it keeps the wolf from the door, and if I need to know the time I always have my mobile (cell phone) or I can ask a police man!

NOVA
Posted February 23, 2011 - 8:19am

"They" always say never do anything for a living that you love, else you will not love it anymore. 

el-ooose
Posted February 23, 2011 - 12:29pm

How true!

It's a bit tounge in cheek really, I do still get a buzz from seeing what was a wreck turned into a thing of beauty, but motivating myself is a bit of  struggle these days!

bourg01
Posted February 23, 2011 - 5:44pm

I would have to disagree with el-loose, after having done 4-500 a year for the past few years, selling some at a loss but making a killing on others I'm still hooked, and I still love doing this. What was once a hobby, then a bobby, then a business keeps me more motivated than ever. Like el-ooose says, taking a wreck and restoring it to it's former glory is an awesome feeling. Getting praised by some buyer that's been able to replace a lost or stolen family hierloom, or being able to have a watch like their Grand Father or father just tops it all off. There can be many rewards for every watch junky, to each our own.

One day I'll have to give it up but I think it will be when I'm in a intensive care ward or 6 ft under. I'm not kidding here cause I've been sick as a dawg the past week and I'm still working, just a bit slower with nap time. lol

Timemachines
Posted February 24, 2011 - 1:21pm

Thats me Bourg!

 I have been doing this for 25 years or so, and the addiction seems to be getting stronger. The more  learn about these old watches, the more interesting they become.

 I also work everyday at the bench, and the satisfaction that I get from others keeps me there.

 I very rarely get a day off, and when i do, I'm still thinking of watches or playing with them. Like I said before, I eat, sleep, and dream watches all the time and I cant see it coming to a end until they plant me too.

 How wonderful is it to find a occupation that you can do every day and love it more every day?

el-ooose
Posted February 24, 2011 - 1:32pm

Twenty five years. You'll be eligible for your gold watch then.

bourg01
Posted February 24, 2011 - 5:41pm

Oh, I think the gold watches come sooner than that. I picked up a Tuxedo with a 14K band about two years ago. I thought I paid a dear price then but not now. With gold prices going bonkers I could double my money for scrap value. Not bloody likely though but it just might take a big chunk out of my son's 1st year university fees in another 5 years from now. Then again, he would probably want to keep it. He's only 14 and really doesn't understand the value yet but he loves to sit at the bench with me, and tinker with the parts watches I'll strip down. Now that's something you just can't put any value on. I can only hope he developes the same skills or better or goes to a school and carries the  byegone art of being a watchmaker, even if he just does it for fun.